Whole Food Plant Based No Added Oil

Whole Food Plant Based No Added Oil
Whole Food, Plant~Based, Oil~Free Vegan, NO processed oils, Minimal Sugar Dietary Guidelines Food Pyramid

Friday, December 28, 2018

Monday, November 12, 2018

After Dinner Headstanding Splits + Cuties


Monday November 12th 2018 8pm

๐ŸŽต๐ŸŽถ Music by Monplaisir, 'Le gris, le bleu, d'une profonde humilitรฉ', translation: My Pleasure, The gray, the blue, of a deep humility. ๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽต


My video was removed because of creeps!!


Getting more comfortable head standing away from the wall. And this is allowing me a greater space for Fuller movement. 

Now that I feel strong enough that I can trust myself to do head standing splits in an open space, I can get a wider range of movement which will help me get stronger in a wider range of muscles. Fun fun fun!

Here's another:




Saturday, November 10, 2018

Workaholism ๐Ÿšซ Just Avoiding Living

๐ŸŽต๐ŸŽถListen to the written words below here ๐ŸŽถ ๐ŸŽต

๐Ÿ’ŽIn a world of over stressed, overworked Workaholics, be relaxed, flowing, joyful, doing what you love without ripping your hair out, bringing joy and love into the world instead of just more to-do lists.

๐Ÿ’ŽIn this world where, "Ugh, I've been so busy!", makes people feel valuable, be someone who says, " I'm loving life! I'm living the life I love! I love doing what I love doing! I love what I do and I do what I love!"

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This world doesn't need more stressed out Workaholics, we need more loving joyful balanced healthy people. Be one. [click to read more...]

Wednesday, November 7, 2018

Justin Timberlake + Weird is Wonderfully Energetically Innovative Radical Daring

Weird

Justin Timberlake

Wonderfully Energetically Innovative Radical Daring:

I've always been weird. I always will be weird. And I absolutely love the freedom of being my weird wonderful energetically Innovative radical daring self!








Encouragement all around for all the wonderful weirdos in this world. All the wonderful people who are so different they are willing to make a difference.

Great speech by Justin Timberlake on being weird:

Monday, November 5, 2018

Dancing ๐ŸŒŸStretching ๐ŸŒŸPracticing ๐ŸŒŸSetting Forth Manifestations

Dancing๐ŸŒŸ Stretching๐ŸŒŸ Practicing ๐ŸŒŸSetting Forth Manifestations

Thank you for your inspiration Gypsyon__:

https://instagram.com/gypsyon__?utm_source=ig_profile_share&igshid=1tzwl8q2zmbmu

๐ŸŽต๐ŸŽถListen to the written words below here๐ŸŽถ
Monday November 5th, 2018

Pretty much I stopped sharing 'talking' videos until the other day when I really had a message to say. Click to keep reading...

Sunday, November 4, 2018

Jay Shetty - "Don't Confuse What You're Being Offered For What You're Worth"


๐ŸŒŸThis is verbal gold from Jay Shetty!









Katlovenotwar Instagram Post- ๐ŸŒŸSharing Jay Shetty's Wisdom

๐ŸŽถ ๐ŸŽต Listen to the written words below here ๐ŸŽถ 

๐ŸŒŸPeople offer us their emotions, their opinions, their point of view, their perspective, their opinion of our value, their opinion of the value of our opinion, and on and on the list goes of what others may offer us.

๐ŸŒŸMaybe we're being offered a certain amount of money for the work we do. ๐ŸŒŸMaybe we're being offered a certain level of commitment with a person in relationship

๐ŸŒŸ Maybe we're being offered abusive interactions with people we believe we want to be connected to

๐ŸŒŸ Maybe we're being offered gold metaphorically meaning we're being offered the best of the best of everything best

๐ŸŒŸ Just remember this teaching, don't confuse what you're being offered for what you're worth.

๐ŸŒŸ Don't confuse someone else's opinion of you or your value with your actual value
๐ŸŒŸ Especially if the opinion or offer is low, do not confuse a low offer to equate too low value in yourself

Watch his Facebook video here- Life is like a Puzzle

๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ๐ŸŒŸ ๐ŸŒŸ ๐ŸŒŸ ๐ŸŒŸ ๐ŸŒŸ ๐ŸŒŸ ๐ŸŒŸ ๐ŸŒŸ ๐ŸŒŸ  #jayshetty #vegan #vibration #dreamvsreality #timelymessage

Monday, October 29, 2018

We get so fixated in our beliefs about who people are that we stop growing and stop letting them grow

๐Ÿ’ฏ✅ Damn this is true! !! TrueAF! ๐Ÿ”ƒPeople evolve! Most people don't even know their own selves after spending every second with themselves.⚛ ๐Ÿ”ƒ We get so fixated in our beliefs about who people are that we stop growing and stop letting them grow in our relationships with them.⚛ ๐Ÿ•‰The healthiest way to make long-term relationships sustainably fresh is acknowledging the newness everyone is in each new moment. ๐Ÿ’˜


Teal Swan Instagram Post ๐Ÿ‘

Thursday, October 25, 2018

What If Privates Were Private? BOOK LINK

What If Privates Were Private?
An Exploration of Gender Fluidity and Freedom

I have written a short book on this topic. Please feel free to get a copy

What If Privates Were Private? Amazon Book Link


Is This World Sick? Yes, Very. BOOK LINK

I finally published a short book on this topic! Please get it here:

Is This World Sick? Yes, Very. An Extrasensory Animal Empath's Perspective

Is This World Sick? Yes, Very. Amazon Book Link


Wednesday, October 24, 2018

Becoming Vegan Relieves Decision Fatigue

Becoming vegan was a giant relief in the decision-making process!

Funny many people think being vegan means living a tightly restrictive life, and I think of it as freedom!

I think of it as safety!

Once you make the decision to be vegan, food choices, clothing choices, entertainment choices become easier because huge chunks of so-called options are no longer options.


And while many people think less options is restrictive, it's actually freedom to choose cruelty-free food, clothing, and entertainment, and all those other little accessories people purchase without thinking about how it's part of a dead animal.

Interestingly, my food tastes, my food palette, my food choices actually have expanded now that I'm vegan.

Now I support companies and products and an industry that intentionally avoids harming animals and the environment.

Now I make choices that harm no one.

Now I feel free to say no to so many things that before might have Twisted me into some kind of decision trap or fatigue or confusion.

But being vegan means I only choose items that harm none, it's sad that that limits many options, yet it's liberating not only for me, not only for my health, but for all beings and the earth and the environment of Earth and the environment of my body and the environment of my mind Spirit soul.

And when I say it's sad that it limits many options, what I mean by that is it's sad that there are so many options that are infused with cruelty. But you don't have to choose those you can leave those off of your options and save yourself from decision fatigue while making wonderful choices.

Nas Daily Facebook Post: Decision Fatigue


L.O.V.E. www.LivingPeach.com ๐Ÿ‘

Tuesday, October 23, 2018

What If Privates Were Private? Rainbow Thighs


Radical idea: Your penis or vagina does not determine your personality, your personal preferences, what colors do you like, the style of clothing you like to wear, your hair style choices, who you will be friends with, who you would be romantic with, what career paths will interest you, your hobbies, talents, skills, interests. Get your head outta your ass!

Rainbow Thighs:

In the world where boys are blue and girls are pink
Girls are cute and boys are kink
Girls will Swoon for boys who wink
Your vagina makes you weak, but that don't stink
Because as a girl, you don't need to think
And you can't anyway, because you have a vagina
If you don't like it, who will care?
When you wear panties and not underwear.

Because what you've got under there makes you all the things
we can determine
simply by knowing
if you have a penis or a vagina
It's much simpler to live this way instead of letting people have their own say.

If people didn't believe that a penis or vagina determine so much about us as people, would parents-to-be be so desperate to find out if the baby has a penis or a vagina before it's even born?

True, cultural and social constructs decide it's incredibly important if you're a boy or a girl and so we believe this is Vital Information!

You can't name your child if you don't know if they have a penis or vagina!

You can't buy clothes for your child if you don't know if they have a penis or vagina!

You won't know what color to decorate the room if you don't know if your child has a penis or vagina! click here to continue reading...

Thursday, October 18, 2018

I love being a Creator Who develops content that encourages myself to love myself and others more. There are no others

I love being a Creator Who develops content that encourages myself to love myself and others more. There are no others, Ramana Maharshi.

Spreading Seeds of Love, nurturing Seeds of Love into blooming plants ripe with the fruit of love.


Do you deliberately create love in your own life?

Do you deliberately create love in the lives of those around you?

We can decide to be angry people who are constantly regurgitating more anger.

We could be scared people who are constantly eating and regurgitating fear-based thoughts.



We could limit ourselves with faulty thinking and junky belief systems and  self limiting self abandoning behaviors.

Or we could choose to love ourselves, and intentionally seek out the goodness, the happiness, the beauty, the kindness, the compassion that's available to us at every moment.

Expanding my willingness and ability to love myself and others. There are no others...L.O.V.E.


www.LivingPeach.com  ๐Ÿ‘
 ๐Ÿ˜❤๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’—๐Ÿ’™๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’‹

Dominick Thompson Shares Prince EA's video about Influence and being an Influencer: Facebook post

Thursday, October 11, 2018

You're the Richest poor person I've ever met! Plus SPEND TIME

Someone told me that I am the "richest poor person  they've ever met". All I could reply is, "Yes! I AM RICH!!"

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ‘‚๐ŸผListen to the audio version here ๐Ÿ”Š๐Ÿ”Š
Not through dollars (yet), but in every way that matters.
How many of us are living in absolute poverty with our time,
love, well-being, exploration of our own interests and talents,
relationship development, personal development, healing from
wounds and heartache, deep reflective inner work and introspection,
enjoying and developing our relationship to our self, just having fun...
you can be a billionaire in dollars and yet be the
poorest most miserable person in all the ways that makes life worth living.

I believe the energy that runs through this statement -
about being the 'richest poor person' has to do with several things:

  • The idea that being "poor" - or not having a lot of money - means that one should never spend money [when one acquires it] on 'nice' or 'expensive' things - 'because you're poor'
  • The idea that not having a lot of money [regularly] means that when one does have money - one should always and only buy 'cheap' stuff - bargains - deals - things on sale - or lower quality items - 'because you're poor'
  • The belief that one who is low income ought to be stressed - incapable of relaxing - being happy - having a good time
  • The concept that when one has very little money they should NOT spend time doing things one loves that does not bring in money [at least not immediately] such as: creating art - music - dancing - going for long walks - writing - self reflection - deep introspection - or any creative/fun/exploratory activity
  • The view that one should have a serious cap on their happiness if one is not earning X amount - that there is a TIME to be Happy and a TIME to earn money/working and that if one is not earning then one has no right to happiness - to be happy or to spend time doing things that brings one joy
  • Continuing with the previous point - the idea that someone who is not earning X amount of money is truly lazy - entitled - not getting with the program - not doing what one NEEDS to do - or in anyway is less than because one earns less money yet has the audacity to be happy!
  • The belief that TIME IS MONEY and therefore if you lack MONEY you have no right to TIME! No Right to SPEND TIME!
  • The idea that our happiness is connected to - tied to - and determined by the amount of money we have or earn and that if one has little money they ought to also have little happiness - because otherwise - you will stress out all those high earners who are also fahkin miserable!!
  • A belief that if one is low on money then one ought not be spending time on things such as body wellness, emotional wellness, emotional wound healing, personal [in contrast to professional] development, meditating, investing in classes that are based on passion and [again] not professional investment, or really spending time in ways that are not all about earning money!
  • Any limiting belief that someone who is not earning X - or isn’t born wealthy - has less right to enjoy life - be happy - feel good - or SPEND TIME THE WAY THEY WANT
But here I am in complete defiance - being happy as can be with a little bit of money and a
whole lotta love and joy and zest for life!

And yep - I did buy that vegan cruelty free $25 face lotion because my precious skin deserves and needs it!
Plus it lasted for many months!!
That was the inspiration for the person who blurted it out to me,
“You really spent $25 for face lotion!?!?
You know, we all say, Klaire is the richest poor person we ever met!” 

Why? Because I SPEND TIME BEING HAPPY regardless of how much money I have!!!
Or don’t have!!

This is your permission to be happy too - no matter how much money you have - or don’t have. 

I love life - I love being alive! I am filled with appreciation and joy for the Sun - Moon - Stars and the loved ones in my life. Life is Rich and Full of Joy!

This makes me the Richest Person In The World! In the Multiverse!

How can you get rich right now today?

Wednesday March 18, 2020 Update:

Current world events forcing everyone to
“Practice Social Distancing” - businesses closing - people out of work - out of jobs - out of money - People finding themselves with more time than money - kids home schooling - adults working from home - now more than ever we have LESS MONEY and MORE TIME than ever before and somehow I feel like the world is - - - 

GETTING RICHER! TIME IS MORE VALUABLE THAN ANYTHING!

Rich in time - poor in money = Still Rich
Rich in money - poor on time = Still Poor

Ultimately the people who declared and perceive that I am the 'Richest Poor Person In The World' came to this collective idea because they see me consistently acting and behaving on behalf of my own happiness and joy - - despite often not having money.

They see that I create art, spend time on myself, spend time with myself, they see that I don't stress about money, that I work and work hard - but that I value my time
and joy, and I value my well-being, and I value my life for trillions and infinities more than basic ass money And I fill my days - nights - weeks - months - years and Life up with Joy and Spending Time Loving Life - Loving Myself - And Loving Myself Loving Life!

Yes - I have bills too!! And now more than ever I feel the iron fist of fear and the need for money extending it's intent to grip my neck - to choke the joy and love of life right out of me and Yet------

I am Still Loving Life and Spending Time Doing What I Love with Those I Love!

I'm Rich Bitch! [Dave Chappelle]


Conclusion: Time is more valuable than money and joy does not come from money but Time Spent Doing What You Love With Who You Love. 

Go Get Rich Right Now and Spend Time Loving Life!

L.O.V.E. www.LivingPeach.com ๐Ÿ‘


Click ☟ to ๐Ÿ‘€ full video


https://youtu.be/uGpSIC0Oj0E

Video 57:57 minutes, this video is subtitled. I could not find a different version. Please feel free to comment with a link if you have a cleaner version of this video. Thanks!

Friday, September 21, 2018

๐ŸŒž Morning Lark v ๐ŸŒ• Night Owl Circadian Rhythms

A.M. v P.M. Circadian Rhythms



As a night owl I have often felt that there is negative perception, a negative connotation towards people who sleep late, sleep in, get out of bed slowly, wake up in stages, hit the snooze button a bunch of times, take a long time to rise to a wakeful state, meditate in bed before sitting up, sit up and meditate, or any variation of this theme.

People even teach that snoozing is a bad thing.  That even the act of getting out of bed slowly itself makes you lazy or ill prepared for your day.

Yet, it could not be more opposite in my experience. (click to keep reading...)

Monday, August 20, 2018

We are not one being in one place at one time. What is time? What is being?

๐ŸŽต๐ŸŽถAudio Version of ⤵Click here ๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽต

BBC documentary 2016 - The True Nature of Time


What is time? What is being? What is time travel? How is it useful, practical, real and magical?

We are infinite beings temporarily existing as finite beings. We are ultimately absolute beings who exist eternally, temporarily existing as ephemeral, perishable transient beings trying to make sense of our limited human perception sensory experiences through the great big unmanifested unknowable mystery of everything that we can sense which senses we don't learn about in school. And often don't understand at all.

So-called extrasensory perception. Dreams. Fantasies. Imagination. What is the real magic power of these mysterious yet accessible abilities that we have as humans.

The following is an inner being/ higher knowing download that I am opening up to and allowing to be broadcast, and received through the tool of the human body I have, and the cell phone on talk to texting this on. An app I'm using to create the audio version. And all of the human Creations that are allowing me to get this out of my mind and into a an electronic version of an audio file of words that aren't  made up of sounds. Join me on a journey into your imagination, into the past, into the future, and most importantly into your very precious present moment of right now we're all of these magical powers are tools that you can use in your own life for your own benefit. For your own Joy. I hope you enjoy this journey.

Relative truth. Absolute truth. Relative time. Absolute time. Expansion. Relative expansion. Absolute expansion. Ultimate expansion.

We are not one being in one place at one time. What is time? What is being?

Before we are born we are in at least three places at once. Vibrational energy in the egg. Vibrational energy in the sperm. And the vibrational being of life itself which is everywhere and also inside those cells.

Studies have shown that far from the fastest, strongest sperm being the sperm that gets in, the egg chooses the sperm based on the vibrational alignment match.

Wednesday, August 15, 2018

Shift from a human marriage to a spiritual marriage

Shift from a human marriage to a spiritual marriage.
This audio version has a few spoken typos, misspoken words. To clarify any section please refer to the written version in my blog.
Shift from a human marriage to a spiritual marriage.

๐Ÿ’š ๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿ’ซ๐ŸŒน๐Ÿ”ฅ๐ŸŒท๐Ÿ’‹
Katlovenotwar Instagram post ๐Ÿฆ„๐Ÿ’ซ









image: page 133 of dr. Wayne Dyer's book real magic. a quote from Joel Goldsmith on the difference between human marriage and a spiritual marriage. Check the blog or my Instagram at KatLoveNotWar to see and read the quote.


What's the difference between a human marriage and a spiritual marriage? What's the difference between a human being and a spiritual being? Are we both? Can we have a spiritual marriage with a human being?


As I ask myself these questions and explore the possible answers, I read to find love to mean something that feels good for everyone involved in that love

Vibrational alignment.
Vibrational alignment with your own inner being. vibrational alignment with a human who is aligned with their inner being period to align human beings aligning with each other. Vibrational alignment equals Love.

Healthy happy relationships are when two whole individual people become three. Two never become one! That's the worst! If two become one, then both people are cut in half and are hobbled together to make one. That mindset means relationship equals loss of self. Loss of autonomy. Loss of your wholeness. When two whole individual entities come together, they create the third entity of them. Us3/We3.
1+1=3! ๐Ÿ’Ž NOT๐Ÿšซ1+1=1 ๐Ÿ‘Ž
1 whole individual plus + 1 other whole individual equals = two whole individuals + 1 We entity (the relationship).
๐Ÿ’Ž
Creating a relationship like this allows each person to remain a whole, unique, autonomous individual. Also, creating a relationship that is a separate third entity differentiated between each individual in the relationship allows the relationship to be nurtured as a garden.
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Viewing your relationship as a garden that you and the other person mutually grow allows each of you to recognize the garden as an extension of yourselves, rather than a part of yourself, as a limb would be for example.
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Why does this matter? How is this healthy? Aren't we supposed to merge and become one with our love?
I'd like to acknowledge Clayton Olson, whom I first heard this relationship as a third entity idea through on his YouTube channel that he shares with Jack Butler.

Wednesday, July 25, 2018

One thought leads you to an entire ocean, forest, World, Galaxy of all thoughts related.

Audio version of article: click here (1:22 mins)

Thoughts are not individual separated points. One thought leads you to an entire ocean, forest, World, Galaxy of all related thoughts. This is why one bad feeling thought can, and often does, lead us into a world of similar negative thoughts and feelings. And then we can get stuck there! Tangled in the weeds, and Vines, caught in the forest of the miserable feelings and thoughts that we feed ourselves! Too many people feel like they're drowning in their unhappiness and not sure how to get to a happier feeling place.


Plant seeds of happy thoughts, happy emotions in the Garden of Your Mind. Grow and nurture these beautiful thoughts into beautiful flowers and fruits. Care about what you feel. Care about what you think. Care about how you feel. Care about how you think. Recognize that how you feel is directly related and correlated to what you're thinking.

Join me as I learn to expand my willingness and ability to love myself and others. There are so many tools, methods, teachings, practices that we can apply to our lives right now and start to improve our thoughts, which will improve our feelings, which will improve our outlook on life, which will improve our lives and bring us much joy.

Rob Dial Jr. Facebook: Inspiration on changing our thought patterns

If this interests you and you desire expanding your ability to love yourself and others please check out my blog to read and/or listen to free chapters of my book about loving L.O.V.E. www.LivingPeach.com ๐Ÿ‘

Monday, July 23, 2018

Riding The Emotional Scale ~ Abraham Hicks Law of Attraction

Riding the emotional scale

Listen to My free audio version chapter of my book: Riding The Emotional Scale (2:17 mins)


Is magic real? ☄๐ŸŒŸ☇๐Ÿ’ซ

Is love real? ๐ŸŒŸ☄☇๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ”ฎ๐Ÿ’˜๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’Ž๐ŸŽถ๐ŸŽต๐Ÿ™ƒ

When we learn to practice intentionally moving our way up the emotional scale we can create genuine Magic and magical love. Start Where You Are. Reach for a better feeling feeling.
Understanding the emotional scale can help you put into perspective where you're at on it, and where you might like to go.
This is the practice of expanding our willingness and ability to love ourselves and then others, through the practice and the process of loving ourselves, accepting ourselves, noticing Where We Are, and making the conscious intention to allow ourselves to open the feelings, the thoughts, the desires, the intentions, to open the circuit, to act upon the inspired actions that come to us that open the conduits of these joyous feelings to flow through us, to us, in us, interconnecting us with others, like your breath, your emotional state breathes in and out of you and impacts our perception and manifestations of our life experience.
When we desire to experience life at a higher level of emotional stability and happiness we can create that by intentionally allowing ourselves to focus on things that naturally move us up the emotional scale, and then allow ourselves to maintain that thought and or activity long enough to actually achieve a higher emotional level that can be sustained on a regular basis.
And when we find ourselves falling back down the scale, rather than beating ourselves up about it, and dragging ourselves down even further, we can reach for a better feeling feeling.
No matter how small, insignificant, irrelevant, luxurious, Fantastical, impossible, imaginative fantasy the thought feels like it is to us, if it helps us rise our vibration up the emotional scale, we will see improvements in all areas of our life. #abrahamhicks
#lawofattraction #vibration #vibing #veganvibes #vegan #creatingmagic #createthecapacitytoreceive #dontyoujustlovebeingalive #PemaChรถdrรถn #PemaChodron Try it. #StartwhereyouAre
What's the worst that could happen? You might feel better? Is that really such a bad thing?


Abraham Hicks ~ Moving Up The Emotional Scale


https://youtu.be/sVgFl4RFG6Y


Abraham Hicks ๐Ÿ’“ Utilizing the Emotional Scale


https://youtu.be/THaJ0LjoBnM


Saturday, July 21, 2018

Is Magic real? Are fantasies Real? Is Love Real or Delusional or Powerful Deliberate Creations...


Audio verion file of chapter:Is magic real? Length: 26ish minutes

My free chapter of my book, " Is Magic Real?" about creating magic creating love and the magic of creating love and the magic of deliberately co-creating magical love:
Is magic real? 
Are fantasies real? Is love real or Delusional or powerful deliberate creations or... thank you Abraham Hicks for so much clarity. Thank you Ralph Smart among many others...













If you get this, you can really get this. ๐Ÿ”ƒ


Before I launch into this I want to say, if this is not right for you, then it's not right for you! If this Rings true with something inside of you, then please enjoy this concept. And if it doesn't feel right to you, please move on in love. I seek to share Loving Thoughts with others who are open to embrace these ideas. And people who are not interested in these ideas I am not interested in trying to convince you. The reasons are explained below....

Do you believe you are a vibrational being๐ŸŽต๐ŸŽถ? This is probably too๐Ÿ™ƒ floaty- head- in- the- clouds⛅ woo-woo woo dreamlike๐Ÿ˜ด otherworldly- magic-๐Ÿ”ฎ fantasy-Gem ๐Ÿ’Žstuff to most people. But those of you who can sync in to this message, you are a deliberate powerful co-creator of your life.
Golden Daisy

How many of us allow our tribe to attract our vibe? instead of letting our Vibe attract our tribe? What does that mean? It means if you let the people around you determine what you're feeling, often you will be feeling off. Trying to align yourself with what other people believe usually leaves a person misaligned.


Often it means, if you allow other people's perception of you to determine how you feel about yourself, you're going to feel shitty. Or it's your perception of them that's going to make you feel shitty.
And it's not because they don't love you, or mean well, or that you don't love them or me well, it's just because their point of understanding, their perspective is exactly that, it's theirs and so they can only see and feel from what they know. Just like your perspective is exactly just that, your perspective that is yours based on what you see and feel and know.




So expecting, or even allowing, another person to determine how you feel about , based on what they think of you or based on what you think of them, is a recipe for misery. For both you and them.
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