This! How many believe you have to self abandon in order to be loved by the person you want to love you? Or how many believe that another ought to self abandon the things that make them who they are in order so that you can love them? When we make another our source of alignment, or source of misalignment, true love can never blossom. 🦄🕊🌹🌷
Instead of looking for someone to love you, love yourself. Then love others from a place of self-love.
🕉 Get obsessed with aligning with your own inner being.
⚛ Get so used to being happy that being unhappy feels off.
🔛 Allow that off feeling to be a signal that you are out of alignment with your inner being.
🔃 Meditate, do something you love to do, go for a walk, do anything different than the usual, start to think gradually better feeling thoughts so, work your way to a better feeling emotional state by allowing yourself to think happy thoughts, feel happy feelings, do happy doings, and cease the negative train
🚩 Get familiar with your own Joy
🔃 Get familiar with deliberately creating your own emotional state and stop using others as your excuse to be in a bad mood or in a bad emotional state or any type of emotional or mental place that you don't want to be.
🚫Stop giving away your personal Power by blaming and allowing others to be the source of your alignment, or the source of your misalignment.
🕉You are the source of your emotional state, you and your inner being, not others...