Being gentle feels kind of easy when you see it's value.
Be a "Tenderist", it's a term I made up that means living tenderly.
Definition of tender
: marked by, responding to, or expressing the softer emotions : fond, loving a tender lover
a : showing care : considerate, solicitous tender regard
a : appropriate or conducive to a delicate or sensitive constitution or character : gentle, mild tender behavior
b : delicate or soft in quality or tone
Would You Date Yourself? by Matthew Hussey